📖 Introduction

When we feel profoundly lonely and disconnected from the world, it is incredibly easy to blame everyone else. We develop a deep victim mentality, feeling resentful and dissatisfied with our lives, convinced that other people are putting up walls against us. To protect ourselves, we put on a mask, pretending to be kind on the outside while secretly harboring negativity and judgment on the inside. We wonder, “Why am I always lonely? Why is there no one around me?” But what if the isolation you feel isn’t caused by the world rejecting you, but by the invisible walls you built in your own mind?

In this post, a 34-year-old woman shares her beautiful journey from isolation to connection. Wandering through life without motivation, she constantly blamed her parents and the world for her sorrow. However, after taking an honest look inward, she realized a painful truth: she was the one demanding love while quietly scarring others and pushing them away.

Read her inspiring story to see how mind subtraction can help you tear down your internal walls, overcome a victim mentality, and completely brighten your approach to life.

💬 Story: 🌱 “I Became Brighter, More Diligent, and Changed So Much”

By Kwon Na-hyun / Age 34 / Level 1

The motive for meditating was that my older sister was already doing it, and when I was wandering without being able to center my mind, I started at my family’s recommendation. In a corner of my mind, a desire to escape this life and change my lifestyle had taken root. This meditation—when I heard those words, I started thinking that I could change.

Before meditating, I was never satisfied with life, and I resented the world, blaming others, the world, and my parents. I was always anxious, had a lot of victim mentality, was selfish, couldn’t approach people, and was full of negative thoughts. I had no motivation for life. My face was always full of sorrow. Why am I always lonely, and why is there no one around me? I always thought I was kind and doing well.

“Starting the meditation and looking back at my life, I realized I was always asking the other person for love while hating, resenting, and only giving scars. I thought I was really kind, but deep inside, I was just pretending to be kind for my own sake. I was truly self-centered, only cared about myself, and although I didn’t say it to others, I was always scarring them in my mind.”

It seems there is no one as bad and mean as me. As I meditated, I began to change. I changed positively, started thinking of others before myself, gained consideration, my face brightened, and I approached people first. And I became diligent. I could see myself objectively. I used to have many complaints and dissatisfactions and didn’t know how to be grateful, but now a grateful heart towards the world has arisen. I also want to be helpful to people in the world.

“I used to think people put up walls against me, but that was all a problem in my mind. I was the one who put up walls when dealing with people. Now, I have also developed a mind to open the door to my heart and approach people first.”

Really, if it wasn’t for this meditation, I would have lived a hard life, but as I discarded the human mind and the universe mind was revealed, it was fascinating and good. I am so grateful that through this study I can discard all the human mind and live with the universe mind. I want to recommend this meditation to many people, and now I want to live for the world.

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🌱 NEXT STEPS: Clear Your Mind Today

Are you exhausted from feeling lonely, resentful, and constantly dissatisfied with the world around you? You do not have to live your life trapped behind invisible walls of your own making. Discover how looking inward and discarding your false mind can melt away your victim mentality, brighten your face, and help you genuinely connect with others.

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