By June S.
From Phone Panic to Public Speaking – How Meditation Helped June Overcome Social Anxiety
Even a simple phone call to order pizza once felt impossible for June S. Like many who suffer from social anxiety, the fear didn’t just show up in big moments—it hijacked the small ones too. Sweaty palms, racing thoughts, self-doubt, and the urge to escape were her daily companions.
But after visiting Santa Clara Meditation, everything began to shift.
June discovered that her anxiety wasn’t random—it stemmed from a mind filled with self-critical thoughts and a need for approval shaped by past experiences. Through consistent meditation, she reflected on those mental patterns and discarded the “pictures” of her past that triggered her anxiety.
Now? She teaches meditation, gives presentations, and enjoys meeting new people. And she does it without fear.
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By June S.
I struggled with social anxiety for a long time. Even ordering pizza by phone was an ordeal. Before dialing in to the pizzeria, my hands would start sweating and I would take a few deep breaths. As I waited, many thoughts would run through my mind. “One large Hawaiian, one medium Pepperoni…wait, was it the other way around? And what about drinks? Right, sprite! But wait, what size sprite did mom want? Oh no, I forgot to ask…”
By this point, if the guy picked up, I would hang up immediately in a panic. I was not able to face a stranger without all the information on hand. This type of social anxiety was debilitating. With each new interaction, I would get more frustrated at myself for not responding as fast or as competently as I wanted others to perceive me. I felt like a basket case all the time.
Finally, after a particularly embarrassing day, I agreed to go with my parents to the meditation center they practiced at. Through meditation, I realized that my social anxiety was caused by my chronically low self-esteem and a desperate need for approval, which came from the life that I lived. I had the quiet time I needed to calmly reflect on myself and discard all of those ‘pictures’ of my life lived.
I now work as a meditation instructor, which requires me to meet with total strangers every day. I give presentations in front of groups of people and I interact with them without any anxiety. I can genuinely say that I am excited to meet people now.
For those who are suffering from social anxiety, I just want to say… take a deep breath, relax, and take a step back to observe yourself. Instead of obsessing over the problem, take a look at where it came from. Meditation is the tool that will help you do so.
🌿 Let Go of the Fear and Become Your True Self
June’s transformation shows that freedom from social anxiety is possible—not by avoiding people or trying to fake confidence, but by looking inward and discarding the mind’s false beliefs.
At Santa Clara Meditation, you learn how to release the root causes of fear, shame, and self-doubt—so you can face life with calm and confidence.
