π‘ INTRODUCTION
What makes a true husband and wife? π
According to Master Woo Myung, a couple must be of one mind, with no distance between them. True unity comes not from possession, expectation, or conflict, but from transcending these things.
β¨ A real couple soothes each otherβs wounds, cares for each other, and even when they laugh, cry, fight, or get angry, they do not own or cling to those feelings. πΏ
The couple who has departed from possession, expectation, and attachment is the one who has become a true husband and wife.
π¬ YOUTUBE VIDEO
π ORIGINAL WRITING BY MASTER WOO MYUNG
Husband and Wife
A couple should be of one mind
in order to be husband and wife.
A couple should have no distance between them
in order for them to be husband and wife.
A couple should not try to possess each othersβ minds.
A couple should not fight
or have any expectations of one another.
A couple should soothe each other of their scars.
A couple should not cry or laugh.
A couple should care for one another.
A couple should laugh in the good times and the bad.
A couple may get angry at each other,
but they should not own it.
A couple may fight, but it should not be a fight.
A couple may laugh, but it should not be laughter.
A couple may love, but it should not be love.
A couple that has truly departed from all of these
things is a true husband and wife.
β Woo Myung
π± REFLECT AT SANTA CLARA MEDITATION
π A true couple is not bound by expectation or possession, but lives as one mind.
πΏ Through discarding attachment, husband and wife can transcend ordinary conflict and live in the Truth of unity.
At Santa Clara Meditation, the teachings of Master Woo Myung guide us to discover this path of love beyond self.
